Signs my wife is not attracted to me
It can be devastating if your wife or partner is no longer attracted to you.
She may seem like she’s lost interest in you, and you’ll want to do anything to get her back into the relationship.
But it’s important to recognize these signs and be mindful of how they affect you emotionally.
If you feel helpless and hopeless about getting her attention again, start taking steps now, there are still ways for both of you to enjoy yourselves together as a couple and maybe even start having sex again!
She avoids physical contact.
Physical contact shows affection and demonstrates your love for each other.
When a woman avoids physical contact, it indicates that she is no longer attracted to you.
Physical contact can be as simple as holding hands or hugging your wife, but when she no longer wants to be close to you physically, it shows that she is no longer interested in you.
If this happens, it’s time to take action because if left untreated, this problem will only worsen over time and cause more damage than initially thought.
She has lost interest in sex.
Sex is not the only sign of attraction, but it’s a big one. If your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you, she may not be attracted to you anymore.
Sex is an expression of affection and intimacy, so if she’s losing interest in that area of your relationship, that’s a clear sign that something is wrong.
She doesn’t get excited about spending time together anymore or initiating intimacy with you.
She might go along with having sex occasionally because she feels like it’s her duty as your spouse.
Still, if she never asks for anything more than missionary position sex once every few months (or even longer), this could be another sign that other issues are at play in your marriage.
She withdraws from conversations.
If she’s not talking to you, it can be hard to know precisely what is happening.
If your wife doesn’t want to engage in conversation with you and is constantly withdrawing from talks, it may be a sign that there are feelings of resentment towards you.
Another sign that she may not be interested in being intimate with you is if she stops responding to texts or doesn’t answer her phone when asked.
Suppose these behaviors continue for an extended time. In that case, they could indicate something more profound than a lack of attraction, such as an issue with trust or communication, may be going on.
She is not interested in your hobbies.
If your wife is not interested in the essential things you need, it’s time to start asking yourself tough questions.
- The first question that should come to mind is: why not?
- Is there something wrong with the hobby or interest?
- Are you too dull?
If she’s not interested in your hobbies, then she has no reason to be attracted to them.
If they’re not her hobbies, they’re barely even yours!
Your hobbies are one of the most significant factors that make up who you are as a person and will tell us if you’re compatible with your spouse before you marry.
If she doesn’t like what makes up half of who we are as individuals when we’re still dating and haven’t tied the knot yet, it’ll only get worse (or better) after marriage!
She is distant and unengaged.
You may not be able to tell from the picture above, but this is a picture of my wife and me.
You can see that she’s smiling and engaged in conversation with me. She also touches me on the shoulder and has her hand on mine.
This is very important because it shows that my wife enjoys being around me and wants to spend time with me by touching me.
If your wife doesn’t show any signs of attraction towards you, there is no need for alarm yet!
However, if she doesn’t show physical affection towards you (for example: kissing or holding hands), then it’s time to ask yourself, why not?
There are many reasons your husband may begin acting distant, many of which have nothing to do with him being bored or disinterested in her overall well-being as a person (which would lead him away from wanting/needing intimacy).
Instead, these reasons tend toward issues within herself rather than problems externalized onto others.
She does not initiate conversations or activities together.
You may be the most attractive man she’s ever seen, but if she does not talk to you or initiate conversations or activities together, it’s a good sign that she just isn’t attracted to you.
- She is not interested in what you have to say. If your wife doesn’t seem to care about what you’re talking about, it could be because she isn’t attracted to you anymore.
- She doesn’t want to do the things you like to do. If your wife is not interested in doing anything that interests or excites her husband (like going hiking), this could also mean that she’s not attracted anymore.
- She doesn’t have any suggestions for activities that can be done as a couple (that aren’t work related). If this is the case, she may feel like there’s nothing else for her and her husband than work and chores around the house (if they even have time left over from working).
She does not show appreciation for your efforts.
When you do something for your wife, and it’s not reciprocated, then it becomes a problem.
If she does not appreciate the things you do for her, this is a huge sign that she’s not attracted to you as much as she should be.
Even if she doesn’t verbalize it, there are ways to show appreciation without saying anything.
She could smile or kiss you when she sees you have cleaned up around the house or done something special for her.
She does not respond to compliments or acts of affection.
If your wife shows no interest in your compliments and acts of affection, it’s a sign she is not attracted to you.
If she does not respond to you when you try to give her a hug or kiss, or she doesn’t acknowledge that you exist when she comes home from work, then this is a warning sign.
She may even have an excuse for not being interested in talking with you: maybe she says, “I’m tired,” or “I’ve got too much homework.”
This could be due to exhaustion or stress, but it could also be because your wife isn’t feeling any chemistry anymore.
She is spending more time away from home.
If she’s spending more time away from home and not spending as much time with you or the family, it may be a sign that your wife is losing interest in you.
She might also be going out with friends more than usual, working long hours, or not wanting sex as often as she did before.
If this is happening to you, it’s likely time to take action! You don’t want to lose the love of your life because of something like this.
She has become overly critical of you.
If your wife has become overly critical of you, it could signify that she is not attracted to you.
She may even criticize you in front of other people. If she does this, they will likely wonder why she would be so mean to her husband.
A woman attracted to her partner doesn’t usually criticize him or anything he does.
A woman can occasionally make constructive criticisms, but if she does it too often, it’s a sign that something else might be happening with her or within the relationship itself.
She is always busy and has no time for you.
One of the most significant signs that your wife is not attracted to you is if she has no time for you.
If you are always asking her to hang out or going to her with problems, and she never seems to have time for you, then there’s a good chance this could be an issue.
This can also be seen in how she spends her nights. If she is always on her phone or texting friends instead of spending it with you as a couple, this can be another sign that she may not be attracted to you anymore.
Another huge sign that your wife isn’t attracted to you anymore is if she doesn’t seem interested in sex!
The first step here should be checking whether or not it’s something physical, like her hormones changing (which happens later).
If the problem persists after doing so, and especially if there are other signs like those listed above, other issues may be at play that makes things worse than just temporary changes in libido.
She talks about other men in front of you without feeling guilty or embarrassed.
If she is talking about other men in front of you without feeling guilty or embarrassed, this is a big sign that she’s not attracted to you.
She may even go so far as to talk about how hot or cute a guy is, especially when he’s young or buff.
If this happens regularly, it could mean that your wife has lost interest in having sex with you and doesn’t see any future with you at all.
You should also be aware that if she talks positively about other men while they are around, this could indicate her lack of attraction for them too!
This will make the man feel bad because he’ll think he was rejected by your wife, which might cause him to get angry, too (especially if it gets back around town).
She is unresponsive to compliments and praise from you.
If your wife is not responding positively to your compliments and praise, it may indicate that she does not find you attractive or desirable.
She may be unresponsive because she is busy or uncomfortable with compliments.
If this is the case, then there are other signs that you should look for.
Her body language indicates a lack of interest.
A lack of eye contact and body language can indicate a lack of interest in you. When your wife interacts with you, she should always look at you and make intense eye contact.
If she is not looking at your face or making any effort to hold your gaze, she likely doesn’t find being around you interesting enough to warrant keeping her eyes on yours.
Similarly, if your wife shows up at the door after work but doesn’t initiate any physical affection (like hugging or kissing), this could also be a sign that something’s off between you.
She might think that the only time she needs to show affection is when sex is involved, and if that’s the case, then I’d suggest talking about your relationship with her before things go too far downhill!
Conclusion
These signs can be challenging, but you must pay attention to them.
You may think she is just stressed or tired and does not realize the deeper meaning behind her actions.
The point of this article is not to freak out if your wife shows any of these signs but rather to become more aware of how they might affect your relationship and find ways to fix any problems that may arise.
