What to Text a Girl who Stopped Responding?

Hey, it happens to the best of us. You’ve been texting a girl, and she suddenly stops replying.

You assume she’d like to talk because she responded quickly when you texted her.

But now? Nothing! 

• What do you do?
• Should you text her again?
• Should you wait for a little while before trying again?
• And why did she stop texting you to begin with?

Before we get into this topic, let’s clear up something that might be obscure.

• There is no one-size-fits-all response that can resolve every situation. Everyone has different preferences and personality types.
• How you approach someone you know will be different from the one you take with people you’ve only met.
• By the way, if you are texting with someone new and you have already messed up. Oh boy, good luck.

Why do Girls Stop Texting a Guy?

There are many reasons why a girl might stop texting a guy.

• The most common reason is that she lost interest in him.
• Sometimes she’d rather talk in person than on the phone.
• The third and final reason is that she has met someone else.

Understanding some common reasons can help you avoid the same mistakes in the future.

Here are some of the most common reasons why girls stop texting:

1) Are you doing Something Wrong?

This is the first thing I would look into, but advising without knowing more about the contest is hard.

Girls can be angry for many reasons, even when there’s no apparent reason to be mad.

They may not be angry but bored or busy responding to you.

So I will look at the previous text and see if something in there may explain why she stopped texting.

If you have a female friend, this is the time to get a second opinion.

A girl may notice something you didn’t.

If you did something wrong and she is mad at you, apologize and ask her what you did wrong.

If she doesn’t answer, it might be because she is still mad at you, so wait until she’s ready to talk again.

Don’t force the issue if she doesn’t want to talk about it immediately.

2) Did You Go Too Fast?

This happens a lot with inexperienced guys.

Inexperienced guys fall for her and start sending text messages like crazy.

I’ve seen it often happen: girls get annoyed by this behavior and stop talking to them altogether.

She might get annoyed and stop talking to you if you send too many messages.

Or, if she is interested in dating but hasn’t decided yet, she may think you are too aggressive and choose not to date you.

So don’t be so eager to meet her in person; let things develop naturally.

Send her another message in a few days, but don’t mention that she didn’t respond to your last text.

You do not want to appear desperate and have her think you are stalking her.

It can be hard to wait a few days, but it will pay off in the end.

3) She’s a Girl that you Know Well?

If you’ve been texting a girl for a while and she stops responding, it’s because something is on her mind.

It could be anything; maybe she’s having a bad day or dealing with some family drama, or she’s had a lot going on lately.

Whatever the reason, if you’ve been texting her for a while, it’s best to give her some space until she texts back.

If she doesn’t respond to your text in a couple of days, try sending her a message saying something like:

“Hey! I know things have been busy lately, but I hope everything is okay! Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help.”

If she still doesn’t respond, give her another day or two before reaching out again.

Do not be pessimistic, angry, or impatient, and wait for her to respond.

Many things happen in our lives, and sometimes people prefer to be alone rather than with others.

For some introverted personalities, for example, social interactions can be overwhelming.

If you’re concerned, try asking a mutual friend what’s happening.

4) Is she an Online Friend?

First off, check out her profile.

If a woman only posts selfies of herself with close friends, she might not need to meet new people.

Take note if she has any pictures with boyfriends with kissing involved.

If she posts photos with other men but doesn’t seem interested in dating them, that could mean she is looking for casual relationships.

In this case, you should only text her a little or ask her out immediately.

You don’t want to appear desperate or needy, so wait until she texts you first (or at least a few days pass).

If she doesn’t text you after another week, send her a quick message asking how things are going.

Takeaway: 

• If you want a serious relationship, I suggest you skip this girl. She’s not ready to settle down and probably talks with other guys.
• If you’re not looking for anything serious and want to have fun, this girl could be worth your time.

5) She’s not into you.

She feels you do too much work or doesn’t think you’re her type.

Whatever the reason, if she stops responding to your texts, there’s a good chance she doesn’t want to see you again.

There’s nothing wrong with having this happen! Everyone has different preferences about dating, romance and connecting with others.

If someone isn’t interested in being with you, it’s not because there is something wrong with YOU or who you are.

Remember that if someone stops responding, it doesn’t mean they dislike you. They may not be interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you now.

It’s natural to want different things from different people.

And that doesn’t make either of them any less worthwhile as human beings!

You can always find someone who will love you for all you are, and it doesn’t matter how many people reject you.

Women usually avoid confrontation, so they’ll silently vanish instead of telling a guy that he’s not their type.

Other girls are afraid that if they reject someone, they’ll feel like an asshole.

And some people don’t know how to reject someone without feeling bad about it!

You can wait some days and send a message like “How are you doing?” and see if they respond.

If, after a few days, you still need an answer, then it’s safe to assume that he’s not interested.

Being ghosted or rejected by someone else is painful, no matter how often it happens!

If you want to avoid being ghosted or rejected in the future, it might be a good idea to work on self-improvement.

6) You got too creepy

This is something to be careful of if you notice that she isn’t responding to your texts.

It’s also worth considering even if things seem normal:

What do you think would make a girl feel creeped out?

The answer is probably the same thing that makes anyone else feel creeped out:

• Being asked for personal information (like pictures or videos of herself)
• Or even just being asked for anything.

You should avoid doing anything that might make her uncomfortable.

And I won’t lie: this is hard to recover from, no matter what you say.

7) You are Boring

This is like the going-to-fast point. You are boring because you are texting too much.

If she stops answering your texts, it’s a sign that you’re boring her.

But if you want to ensure, ask her out on a date.

• If she says yes, then she’s into you!
• If she says no, then it’s time for some self-reflection.

Why didn’t she want to date you? Is it because another guy had caught her eye, or talking with you failed to hold her interested?

If dating has become a struggle, it might be time to focus on yourself.

What About Small Talk?

Everyone wants to be interesting, but only some are.

Most people are terrible at small talk because they don’t want to risk being embarrassed.

The ability to carry on a conversation is an essential social skill.

To avoid awkward silences, always ensure you’re prepared with exciting things to discuss.

For more information, check out this free Book.

8) You are Going Too Slow.

If a man takes too long to make the first move, a woman may get frustrated and assume he is uninterested.

If she has stopped texting you, it may be because what you say no longer interests her.

If this happens, don’t take it personally. 

She might be busy with work and unable to respond.

Yet, if this happens more than once, it’s best to move on and find another more responsive girl!

9) She’s Just playing with You.

Dating can be terrifying and exciting, especially if you’re new to the game.

But sometimes, it will feel like a game of cat and mouse where your crush is the cat, and you’re the mouse.

Playing with feelings is terrible, and keeping someone on the hook for fun is unfair.

If she knows you like her and is still playing with your emotions, she’s not worth your time or effort.

You can show yourself that you are a man, not someone others can manipulate.

The Takeaway:

In conclusion, it’s important to remember that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to texting.

You cannot expect every girl you message to respond similarly.

Instead of using the same text message with every girl, learn what they like.